Mongering at Home

Telephone Exchange
On occasion I would have to travel to another part of the county and often this meant catching a train from and to London. Usually on return to London I could not resist the pull of all the adverts plastered in the telephone boxes all over the city.
I suppose because of being on my own and the anonymity of the city I would pass through the doors of a brothel once again. In these initial visitations I did not engage in penetrative sex, but would just enjoy a really good handjob or something like that and maybe ogling a naked woman's body. Over time though I visited many more especially around Paddington and Sussex Gardens, there were Indians, Orientals and some of them were gorgeous!

Brighton Sex Scene
As a student I lived in Brighton. Brighton has a very active red light district behind innocuous closed doors. Unlike Amsterdam you would never know you were in the red light district when walking down the roads and mews off of Western Road where the main concentration of the brothels are. Again in Brighton the telephone boxes were plastered with their calling cards. In recent years there has been a crackdown on these cards and seems now they rely more heavily on the local press like the Friday Ad.

Lonely Hearts Dating
I first came across the Friday Ad when I first moved to Brighton at the end of 1991 and was ever so slightly fascinated by all the adverts in it lonely heart section back then. I suppose being anonymous again in a new city I put my first ad in a lonely hearts section. Of course to retrieve your messages you had to pay a premium rate but I was getting alot of replies and felt maybe I had struck pussy gold.

After having a telephone conversation with some of the girls I would then meet up. Some were hot and some not so. It seemed the ones that liked me I did not them and visa versa. With the better looking ones my confidence was lacking. But by repeated dating I was getting use to it. Going on a blind date like this is a bit like going to a job interview, eventually you know what to expect and your nerves calm, and eventually you land the job. You have to choose your venue carefully, a crowded pub is not the best place to get acquainted with a stranger.

On the 5th date I was feeling alot better and I met a cute black girl of 25 years. I had never been with a black girl before but had a bit of a fetish about them. I was calm with her. Now for some reason we had to go back to my flat I had forgotten my wallet or something, she came back with me and was impressed with the flat. Eventually we just went to the local off-license and got some wine and back to the comfort of my couch. We soon we were kissing and she had my cock out and I remember her standing in front of me marvelling over her hairy black pussy.

The next date, the following week, on my 27th birthday we go all the way, and I would say that this was my first proper good fuck. I continued to see her for another 3 months on and off. She was your typical single parent of a little daughter living alone in some Brighton council estate, and I think she may have even drifted into prostitution to make ends meet if she was not already doing so before I had met her.

Brighton probably like London and has alot of transient people, no one really knows you or your history or has a handle on you. Every so often I would put an ad in and get mixed results. But moving to the city out of your home town lets you explore your sexuality much more freely. Sex and the City.

Computer Network - Chat Relay
Before the internet I was then meeting girls through using the university network and chat relay. In 1992 I was connected to this from home with my first modem. Eventually I actually meet a nice girl through this and I am with her for 3+ years. Although a lovely girl, one I should have tried harder to keep I could not resist visiting prostitutes. It must have been a couple of nerds who wrote that software for that computer network, I wonder if they knew then how much they would improve peoples sex life. At the time though I met a few girls off of here of different ethnicities.

Premium Rate dating
The next phase of my development as a monger was dialling premium rate numbers - 0898 prefix back then. Here with some perseverance you could potentially get a date that night with a nymphomaniac if you were lucky.

a woman with an abnormally intense sexual desire

Often though you would spends hours on the phone and achieve very little, other times you would meet really rough dogs and you would coming running home with your tail between you legs. But what kept you coming back for more was occasionally you would meet someone who would let you cum in their mouth or something like that. The phone bills were atrocious and I had limited funds. This could not continue. I think eventually BT cut me off.

Brighton Brothels
The easiest solution in the end was to part with between £30 and £50 pounds and visit a local brothel. With there being so many on your local doorstep if living in a place like Brighton on the south east coast of England. Alot of the girls with the adverts in the telephone box were working for themselves and students or something like that. Often you knew which ones because their calling cards were not professionally produced and just in their own handwriting.

Iv lost count of the number of girls I screwed in the 5 years I lived in Brighton. Also spent a great deal of money on them. I remember one of my favourite places to visit was a house called 'Tip to Toe'. They would always have a selection of beautiful young girls, some local but always some from all over the world, Brazilians, Scandinavians, Blacks, Thais etc. You could monger on your own doorstep. You never asked questions, the girls never seemed depressed or anything, but behind the scenes there must have been some people trafficking I suspect.

Rarely though did you get the girlfriend experience, although on occasion you would get a very enthusiastic girl. I was still a regular visitor to the brothels of Brighton up until a couple of years ago. One place that is still going and similar to what Tip to Toe was is Swallows. Well worth a visit if you are in town.

Internet Dating
By 1997 when I was in professional employment and starting to have a disposable incomes the internet was really taking off. A few years later, computers were common place in people houses with no real knowledge of computers. From the comfort and privacy of your own home you could now contact the opposite sex on-line through internet dating sites, instant messengers etc.
I suppose alot of the girls from the chat lines and lonely hearts had now moved to this new medium. What was even better you could exchange pictures. Uploading a pic to your computer being one of the first things a computer illiterate person will learn after joining a dating site and successfully installing ICQ or MSN Messenger.

The number of internet dating sites has exploded in recent years their success almost guaranteed by the growing number of home computers and increasing bandwidth. Although the people registered are fragmented over all these sites. Cannot say there is really one better than the other. Some are free and some are not. Some are geared explicitly to encounters of the sexual kind.

Iv met dozens of women from internet dating sites over recent years, Chinese students, Black girls from London, although a relationship has never come from it. There are alot of serial daters on these sites. It is so easy to butterfly. One moment someone seems interested in you the next they dont even reply any more. It can become very impersonal all of a sudden. Anyway let me fast forward to my latest and most recent encounter to date, one of the best so far.

Mongering at Home
Since 2002 I have been mongering abroad which you can begin to read about here. But since my last trip in March 2008 I have changed jobs and decided I needed to pay off my credit what with the credit crunch and all.

Working in London and seeing all these black girls has been getting me really horny. I managed to find a free London based advertising website and put a free ad in specifically seeking black or mixed race girls. In the last 4 months I have met up with 5 black girls from 25 to 40 and 4 of these I have fucked for free, just a one night stand kind of thing.

This weekend I meet a Naomi Campbell lookalike, a recent graduate and originally from South Africa. She was prepared to come over this Friday night and stay with me all night. But she wanted some money as she not have much. I was thinking how much would she want? She ask how much I would give her? Ok, I thought I can afford a 100 pounds, so I tried that and she accepted. This was Tuesday and did not think I or her would really go through with it.

Come Friday she is in contact again and we arrange to meet up, she will get a train to where I live and then I will drive her home in the morning.

I meet her at the station at approx 7:45pm and she is lovely and she likes me. Stop off to get two bottles of wine and we sit in the comfort of my own home getting acquainted. After a glass of wine we are kissing and then she gets her tits out for me and they are lovely. The next thing I remember she is bouncing up and down on top of me and Im thinking life does not really get much better than this.

We sleep together and in the morning we fuck in lots of different positions. It really was good with a young 25 yo model type girl. Never did she mention money until we left. I had to stop at a ATM to get her cash and I gave her 120 pounds and drove her home. So with the petrol and all was approx 150. But it was great!

I could get addicted to this. I wonder with the influx of foreign girls a little cash strapped its now possible to monger at home and get the GFE if you know where to look.

Where next will technology take us? Artificial sex maybe...